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Derail using Intellectualism.
Derail using Enlightenment.
Derail using Distraction.

A guide to Derailing the Conversation.

 

A lot of people have experienced this; you are hanging out with friends, causally talking and laughing about life.  Then, someone decides to bring up a topic and exert their privlege.  "The thing is, you’re having a good time, sharing your knowledge about these people and their issues. This knowledge is incontrovertible – it’s been backed up in media representation, books, research and lots and lots of historical events."  

 

There is the chance of these converstions upon realization that you can still be part of a dominant culture and have views outside of that.  Speaking up about those realizations opens a space for conversation on them can become uneasy - hoever we believe that they need to be hit head on, breaking through the frusteration and emerging  with a voice of an educated perspective. 

 

Feel free to use these words as a rough guide to derail the conversation, experience, comment, or interaction.

Derail using Education.
Derail using Emotion.
Derail using Humor.

Tips in connecting people to these issues in conversation:

 

Educate: Educate yourself, and share your education with others. Many people are simply not aware of historical and present day Euro-Canadian/Native relations. If ignorance breeds racism and discrimination, then you have the power to reduce ignorance through educating yourself and others through choosing to do something positive with that power.

 

Share, don’t tell:  Remember that the goal is not to tell other people what to think, but to share what you know so they can create informed opinions.

 

 

Relate:  Talk about an area of the topic that the person you are conversing with can relate to.

 For example, you are talking to a conservative minded individual about the negative impact an oil spill from a pipeline could have on a First Nation community. Try starting the conversation by talking about how an oil spill would harm economic health of First Nation communities, as it would degrade their natural recourses such as fish, wildlife, and land. In this, you have lead the conversation into an area that is not only important to First Nation well being, but also where a conservative person values and can relate too.  Also, the person may now be more open to other areas regarding this topic, such as the threat an oil spill would pose on First Nation culture through deterioration of land, as land is the soul of the culture.

 

Remain Calm:  It is easy to blow a fuse in heated conversations. Remember to keep a level head!

 

If all else fails:  Often people just don’t want to hear it from you. Encourage the individuals to do their own research and come up with informed opinions. They could to take a First Nations study’s course, attend a First Nations cultural center, or read academic literature on the subject. Be sure to let them know that media sources are not a valid way to gather information, as they are often biased and inaccurate.

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